Our goal is to help Frum daters find (and share!) kosher, comfortable, and high quality shidduch date locations. We are based in the New York area. As such, we understand how frustrating it can be to live in such a huge metropolitan area, yet feel so limited in finding kosher dating locations. Hopefully we will be able to fix this together, and make our [dating] world a better place!
iGiveYouGifts is a funny name for our website! If you really think about it though, everything Hashem gives us through [and especially by means of] dating is a massive gift! First of all, dating is one of the most powerful ways of getting to know oneself. Through building relationships we recognize our strengths, strengthen our weaknesses, and become more compassionate human beings. Yes, it is true that Shidduchim can be difficult and tiring at times.
Yet, when a person strengthens his Emunah in how Hashem runs the show, and that the Big Boss wants [and ensures] the very best for each and every one of us - every moment in a person's life becomes a precious and beautiful gift from his Creator. When we fortify our Bitachon in The Creator, and know in our heart of hearts that He - and ONLY HE - is in control, there are no worries and there is no confusion. There only remains room for love and trust in our Father and Benefactor. And that is all you'll need to get through anything in life.
This is the gift that I am giving you. Trust Hashem. Know that He loves you - even if we don't always act like we love Him. He will provide you with the most perfect Zivug; in fact, he decreed 40 days before you were born that you would marry her (Sotah Bavli 2a)! When you walk in His path, you will merit peace of mind, and peace in the home. Remember, you can't have Shalom Bayit without "Shalom." Shalom is one of Hashem's names, and it is "the container" for all of His other blessings.
So what do you need to do? First of all, make sure that you're a mensch on every date - even if she won't be your wife, she is still a holy Bat Yisrael, & deserves to be treated as such. So click on the dating button, add locations, & search for Shidduch date locations!